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Evaluating Your Life

So.. You read the header of this blog post and for some reason, it drew you in to open up this post. Maybe this is a sign. A sign to re-evaluate your life. Your choices. Your dreams & goals. Your purpose

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I’ve been there. I have been stuck. I didn’t know what I wanted to do in life, what I wanted for myself and it sucks. It drains you and stresses you out. People are constantly asking what you are doing, what your plans are, etc.. and you just don’t even have an answer for them at the time. But right now is the perfect time to think about what exactly it is that you want in life. 

Do you want to be a stay-at-home mom? Do you want to own your own business? Do you want to have a full-time or part-time job? A family? Single-life? Where do you want to live forever? Do you want to travel and live out of an RV or have a house? Town or country home!? 

So many different things to evaluate - but that’s life. Living and learning and finding your way through it. Trial & error is real, it’s hard, but mostly it is important. 

I can tell you this — I know ONE thing I want for me and my life & it is to have no regrets and to feel accomplished with what I have done. To feel complete and fulfilled. That’s my goal. 

So, some of you may be asking “What can I be doing to evaluate my life better?”. Here are some questions that run through my head every day that helped push me to better myself. 

1) What did you do today? 

  • Simple. But an important question to ask yourself. Every day is another day that you could be closer to your dreams and goals - so spend every day wisely doing baby steps. 

2) Did you spend your day doing something you loved? 

  • You want to be spending your days doing something you like/love to do. We shouldn’t be spending our days doing things that can spark bad moods. 

3) Did you set personal goals for yourself today & did you achieve them? 

  • Without progression, how will you get to your “end goal”? 

4) Check your attitude and outlook on life. 

  • Attitude is everything. 

5) Plan ahead. 

  • My plans for tomorrow will be based on what will make me even CLOSER to what I want in life. 

Those are just a few suggestions I have for all you lovelies out there to start on! It’s not always easy, it’s not always convenient, but I promise you - IT IS WORTH IT. 

Can’t wait to see y’all strive & thrive! 



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